cross the RED
philosophy of love
What?
CROSS-THE-RED
(red=separation from God)
is a philosophy of sacred, untouchable and restorative Love
that serves the bride in the bond of marriage.
To ADORE her, to PROVIDE for her and to PROTECT her.
The purpose of love based marriage is to build your own secure world and to own it
through the shared identity with Christ.
Because Love is the OWNERSHIP itself -
the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly -
till death does us apart.
If you have that, you have all that you need. Without it you got nothing.
It lives your life for you if you embrace it.
Therefore, don`t say "I do" to a man who hasn`t proposed to love and marry you.
Likewise, don`t identify with anything that makes you work for it.
Cross The Red emphasizes the restoration of individual identity
back to its original perfection and authority
by conceiving the Biblical Image of God (Love) in every human being.
As the result you are -
a contented, undivided, resourceful persona -
a perfect child of God.
Christ-like.
It is not your works anymore that you identify with,
but only the works of Christ in which you establish your identity.
I associate myself only with this bond of perfection in the marriage with Love/Christ. As ONE.
You are His beloved regardless of circumstances around you.
He loves you, He lives through you, breathes through you, He eats, walks, talks, suffers, delights and is you.
As if you alone don`t matter anymore and, yet, you matter the most.
And, His deep knowing of "who I am"
results in contagious contentment, resourcefulness, beauty and Christ-likeness of me.
I don`t have to be a "whore" anymore to work for affection of men and other gods.
This kind of Love based marriage is the act of Christ`s power
that rules and subdues the world and its disorders
in and through each surrendered believer,
reversing the inborn false perception of the world dominating an individual.
It`s for you, Adam and Eve, to return back to Paradise.
“What is man, that you are mindful of him, or the son of man, that you care for him? You made him for a little while lower than the angels; you have crowned him with glory and honor, putting everything in subjection under his feet.” Now in putting everything in subjection to him, he left nothing outside his control." Hebrews 2:5
Why?
In this marital conception, God`s Grace elevates nature.
Philosopher and Catholic Church Doctor Thomas Aquinas taught that Grace “perfects” nature,
that creation is inherently imperfect without relationship with Christ/Love.
When?
No good fruit produced, no peace, no contentment. When you serve others for the benefit of self.
When you desire to be liked, loved, valued high by others. It is when an individual has reached
the point of identity, beauty, dis-ease and self value crisis,
which is inevitable in every human life
because of the inborn divided mind and the nature of death that cannot resurrect by itself.
Who?
The individual who wants to surrender himself only to Christ after consciously facing
his inability to stop self-destruction,
and has given up on oneself, other gods and other techniques of happiness and power.
as in James 4:8
"Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.
Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded."
How?
Praise Love.
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,”
and “your neighbor as yourself.” Luke 10:27
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CROSS-THE-RED involves a practical 3-step program of human restoration
back to beauty, love, truth and freedom,
physically, mentally and spiritually in Christ.
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3-STEP individual VALUE
RESTORATION PROGRAM.
Step 1.
NEGATE the desire to be liked / loved / valued by people.
Instead - LOVE PEOPLE.
It is I who gives love to people. In my heart, secretly, passionately, selflessly. They don`t even have to know it.
Wanting to be loved/liked/valued by people (horizontally)
is the very obstacle that blocks the inflow of Love vertically (from God alone).
This is actually the desire to receive LACK from other people because humans can`t give love to each other
without receiving it first from God the father, who is the ultimate and only source of Life and Love itself.
Step 2.
Read the Bible. Converse with Jesus as a friend.
Pray Our Father and the ROSARY in full attention and presence.
Virgin Mary is the Immaculate Conception.
Ask her to pray for you.
Step 3.
While READING the Bible PRACTICE WALKING ON TIP TOES
This is physical way to clear body and mind of fear, unaware tension,
sense of fault, borrowed thoughts, dis-ease, lack and unconscious self-destruction.
Walking on tip-toes consciously tightens muscles and moves body out of its natural flow towards death -
into obedience and unity with the declared by tongue word of God (Jesus).
A human is content when he re-establishes an individual relationship
with God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.
Conceiving His sacred Love in heart,
beauty in face and order in mind and body.
"He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me.
And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father,
and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.” John 14:21
"Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ
unto eternal life". Jude 1:21
